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Beginning September 1, 2025, several important updates to Texas family law will take effect. These changes will impact child support, custody, possession schedules, protective orders, and Department of Family and Protective Services (DFPS) cases. Families involved in custody or support matters should be aware of how these laws may affect them going forward.

At the Barrows Firm in Southlake, we stay ahead of legislative updates so we can provide the best counsel to families. Here is a summary of the most significant changes.

Child Support Guidelines Revised

Texas child support guidelines are being updated for the first time in six years. The maximum net income cap used to calculate guideline support will increase from $9,200 to $11,700. This change ensures that support amounts better reflect the rising costs of raising children. The Attorney General reviews guidelines every six years, and this is the largest increase ever adopted.

Parents with new cases or modifications finalized on or after September 1, 2025, will see these updated figures applied to their cases. Existing orders will remain under the old cap unless successfully modified.

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SB 1559: Protective Orders Consolidated

Protective orders will now be consolidated into related divorce or custody cases, rather than requiring separate proceedings. This change streamlines the process and provides families with a more efficient way to obtain necessary legal protections. For those dealing with domestic violence, this makes protective orders more accessible and integrated into ongoing family law cases.

SB 1398: Kinship and Reunification in DFPS Cases

This bill makes important adjustments to how DFPS handles conservatorship and placement of children. It emphasizes placing children with relatives or within their community whenever possible and prioritizes reunification with parents when safe and appropriate. These changes reflect a broader push to keep children in familiar environments and reduce unnecessary disruption to their lives.

SB 1936: Expanded Possession Schedules

Noncustodial parents will now have more time under the standard possession schedule, including expanded weekends and holidays. This change recognizes the importance of meaningful time with both parents and adjusts visitation schedules accordingly. Families should review their parenting plans to see if the new standard possession schedule applies to their case.

Why These Updates Matter

These legislative updates affect how many families experience custody, support, and protective orders in Texas. For custodial parents, the increase in child support guidelines may bring additional financial support. 

For noncustodial parents, expanded visitation ensures stronger relationships with children. For families navigating DFPS or domestic violence issues, these changes streamline the process and keep the child’s best interests at the forefront.

How the Barrows Firm Can Help

Families navigating child support, custody, or protective orders should review their cases in light of these updates. Some may benefit from modifications, while others may need new strategies for visitation or DFPS proceedings.

The Barrows Firm has extensive experience in high-stakes family law and understands how legislative updates impact real families. We guide clients through these transitions with clarity and confidence, protecting children’s best interests at every step.

If you have questions about how these legislative changes may affect your family, contact the Barrows Firm in Southlake to schedule a consultation. Our team is ready to advise you on child support, custody, and protective order matters under the new laws taking effect this September.

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Beginning September 1, 2025, a significant change to Texas child support law will take effect, raising the maximum income cap used to calculate guideline child support for the first time in six years. This update means higher guideline support amounts for many families, impacting both new cases and modifications finalized on or after the effective date.

At the Barrows Firm, we guide parents through the complex realities of child support, custody, and modifications. With this increase, now is the time to understand how the law applies to your family.

What Changed in the 2025 Legislative Session

The Texas Legislature approved a cap increase as part of its regular review cycle. Under House Bill C.S.H.B. 2643, the cap on monthly net resources rose from $9,200 to $11,700, the largest increase ever. This change reflects inflation and the rising costs of raising children.

The Attorney General’s Office reviews child support guidelines every six years, and this increase is part of that process. The new cap applies to all orders finalized on or after September 1, 2025, whether in new cases or modification proceedings.

New Guideline Support Amounts

Texas applies percentage-based guidelines to a parent’s net monthly income, up to the cap amount. With the higher $11,700 limit, payments will now be calculated as follows:

• One child (20%): $2,340/month (previously $1,840/month)
  
  
• Two children (25%): $2,925/month (previously $2,300/month)
  
  
• Three children (30%): $3,510/month (previously $2,760/month)
  
  

For families with higher income levels, this adjustment means more financial support is available for children under the guideline framework.

Who Is Affected by the Change?

Any child support orders finalized on or after September 1, 2025, will reflect the higher cap. Parents entering into new support orders after that date should expect the updated guidelines to apply.

Cases that are pending or modified after September 1, 2025, will also be calculated under the new cap. Parents with ongoing modifications should be prepared for updated amounts once the court finalizes the order.

Orders finalized before September 1, 2025, remain based on the old $9,200 cap unless they are successfully modified. This distinction makes it important for parents to review their existing orders and determine whether a modification request is appropriate.

Should You Seek a Modification of Support?

This change raises an important question for parents with existing child support orders: Should you request a modification? For custodial parents whose support was calculated under the old $9,200 cap, the increase to $11,700 could mean significantly more support if the other parent’s net income exceeds the former limit. Filing a modification may therefore be worthwhile in certain cases.

For paying parents who earn more than $9,200 in net monthly income, the new cap may increase your obligation if the other parent seeks a modification. In these situations, it is often strategic to evaluate your financial picture and consider whether negotiating a new arrangement might be in your best interest.

Courts will continue to evaluate modifications through the lens of the child’s best interests. While the statutory increase can serve as a basis for requesting review, modifications are not automatic. Generally, a material and substantial change must still be demonstrated, which makes careful legal advice essential before proceeding.

Every family’s situation is unique, and the decision to pursue a modification should be carefully weighed with the guidance of an experienced family law attorney.

Why This Matters for Families

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This cap increase ensures that guideline child support amounts better reflect today’s costs of living. For many families, the difference could mean more stability and resources for children. For others, it raises new questions about affordability and planning.

The Barrows Firm understands how legislative changes impact families at every stage of a case, from initial filings to modifications years later. With decades of combined experience in high-stakes family law, we provide the insight and advocacy parents need to make informed decisions.

Need Assistance?

If you are in the process of obtaining child support, the updated guidelines directly affect your case. If you already have an order in place, this may be the right time to consider a modification.

Contact Attorney Leslie Barrows at the Barrows Firm in Southlake to schedule a consultation and learn how these changes may impact you and your children. We are here to protect your family’s best interests and guide you through every step of the process.

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As children grow older, their involvement in sports often becomes more competitive and demanding. Practices and games can dominate evenings and weekends, travel teams can keep families on the road for much of the year, and the intensity of competition can raise new questions about safety and well-being. For co-parents, this can put a serious strain on an already delicate balance. Even the most cooperative parenting arrangements can be tested when schedules become chaotic and each parent has their own vision for what is best for the children.

In many blended families, new spouses or partners may also have strong opinions about a child’s sports participation, adding another layer to an already complex situation. While input from caring adults can be valuable, it can also trigger conflict when everyone is not on the same page. Co-parents already face the challenges of coordinating across households, and disagreements about time commitments, travel expenses, and physical risks can quickly escalate into disputes that affect the family dynamic.

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Disagreements about sports are not just about inconvenience; sometimes, they involve serious safety concerns. One parent may believe a sport is too dangerous for a child’s age or skill level, especially in high-impact activities such as football, hockey, or competitive cheerleading. Others may worry about overuse injuries, heat exhaustion, or the mental toll of an intense competitive environment. These concerns are not only medical but also emotional, as children may feel pressure to perform at higher levels than they are ready for.

If these concerns rise to a level where a parent believes the child’s welfare is at risk, legal intervention may become necessary. In Texas, a substantial change in circumstances affecting the child’s best interest can be grounds to seek a modification of custody or parenting plans. This might mean asking the court to limit certain activities, require mutual agreement for participation in higher-risk sports, or adjust the schedule to ensure children get adequate rest and balance in their lives. When safety is at the heart of the dispute, courts will weigh evidence, expert opinions, and the overall impact on the child’s physical and mental health.

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Enforcement and Modification of Parenting Plans

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Parenting plans and court orders are designed to provide structure and predictability, but they can become outdated as children grow and their schedules change. For example, a plan made when a child was in elementary school might not account for the demands of high school athletics. If one parent consistently disregards the agreed-upon plan, such as enrolling the child in a sport without the other parent’s consent or failing to coordinate schedules, enforcement proceedings may be necessary to ensure compliance.

In other cases, a modification may be the most practical solution. This could involve revisiting the time-sharing arrangement, travel obligations, or decision-making authority regarding extracurricular activities. For instance, if a child’s competitive soccer schedule requires out-of-town travel every other weekend, adjustments to visitation schedules may be needed so both parents share in the responsibilities and experiences. While these legal proceedings are significant, they can be essential to protect the child’s health, ensure fairness between parents, and reduce stress on the entire family.

Finding Common Ground Before Heading to Court

While the legal system provides a framework for resolving disputes, it is always preferable for parents to reach an agreement outside of court. Open communication, mediation, and a willingness to focus on the child’s needs rather than adult disagreements can go a long way toward finding workable solutions. Co-parents who approach sports planning as a team, even if they live in separate households, can help their children enjoy the benefits of athletics without the stress of ongoing conflict.

One practical step is creating a shared sports calendar that both parents can access and update. This ensures no surprises about practice schedules, game times, or travel plans. Another option is to agree on clear safety protocols, such as limits on consecutive practice days or medical check-ins during intense training periods. The truth is, the years go by quickly. Those “18 summers” of childhood can disappear faster than many parents expect, and spending them in conflict over schedules and competition robs families of valuable memories. By addressing sports-related disputes proactively and respectfully, parents can keep the focus where it belongs: raising happy, healthy kids who know they are supported by all the adults in their lives.

Attorney Leslie Barrows: Experience You Can Rely On

Attorney Leslie Barrows, founder of The Barrows Firm in Southlake, has extensive experience handling high-stakes family law matters in Texas, including custody disputes involving complex extracurricular schedules and sports participation. Her background includes representing parents in cases where the child’s safety, education, and extracurricular activities have become points of contention. She understands the emotional and legal challenges that come with co-parenting and competitive sports, and she is skilled at finding solutions that balance the needs of the child with the rights of each parent.

With years of courtroom experience and a reputation for strong advocacy, Attorney Barrows knows when to fight for her clients in litigation and when to pursue collaborative solutions that preserve important family relationships. She takes the time to understand each family’s unique circumstances, ensuring that legal strategies are tailored to protect children’s best interests while providing parents with clear guidance on their rights and obligations. Whether it is enforcing an existing parenting plan, negotiating a modification, or representing clients in high-conflict custody trials, Leslie Barrows offers the legal skill and dedication that make a difference.

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A Closer Look at Timing, Strategy, and Texas Family Law

At The Barrows Firm in Southlake, we consistently observe a surge in divorce filings in late August and early September. While it may seem like a coincidence, the back-to-school period often represents a practical and emotional threshold for many families. For parents considering divorce, the start of a new school year is more than a calendar event; it’s a strategic and often deliberate time to initiate major life changes with minimal disruption to children.

Understanding why so many people wait until after summer to file for divorce reveals much about family priorities, legal strategy, and the real-world impact of timing on custody, support, and stability. It also highlights the importance of working with an experienced Texas family law attorney to make informed decisions that align with the best interests of both the parents and the children.

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Parents Want to Protect Their Children From Summer Disruption

For most parents, summer is a time of flexibility, travel, and family-centered activities. Children are out of school, which often means extended time at home or on vacation. In many families, summer break brings a change in pace and an opportunity for bonding. Even in homes where the marriage is strained, there is often a desire to preserve the summer experience for the children without introducing the emotional weight of a divorce.

Parents who know a divorce is coming may decide to postpone the filing until after the summer to shield their children from disruption. These parents often share the belief that summer should be preserved as a period of normalcy and positive memory-making, particularly if the divorce is likely to change the family dynamic significantly.

While there is no perfect time to separate or divorce, delaying the filing until school resumes allows children to enjoy their summer without being caught in the middle of an emotional or legal battle. It also spares parents from having to explain complex family changes at a time when children are otherwise focused on fun, camp, or family trips.

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Summer Offers Time to Prepare for the Divorce Process

For the spouse who plans to file for divorce, the summer months are often used as a time of preparation. Without the pressures of school schedules and academic obligations, there is more time to discreetly gather information, meet with an attorney, and organize one’s affairs. Many people use this time to consult with financial advisors, collect documentation of assets and debts, and consider their goals for child custody and support.

In Texas, divorce can involve significant planning, especially when children are involved. Parents need to think about conservatorship (the legal term for custody in Texas), possession and access schedules, child support, and division of marital property. Under Texas law, courts presume that joint managing conservatorship is in the best interest of the child unless one parent can show otherwise. This means it is critical for a parent to understand what evidence may be necessary to support claims for primary custody or limited visitation for the other parent.

The spouse preparing to file may also use the summer to observe the other parent’s behavior, particularly their parenting practices. If there are concerns about substance abuse, neglect, or emotional instability, summer may provide the opportunity to document those issues in a way that could be relevant in court proceedings. In high-conflict cases, this can become part of a larger legal strategy.

Emotional Readiness and the “Fresh Start” of a New School Year

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The beginning of the school year is also symbolic. It represents a return to structure, stability, and productivity; not just for children, but for parents as well. After a summer of reflection, many individuals find themselves ready to move forward emotionally. For those who have been enduring a difficult or emotionally draining relationship, the start of the academic year can feel like the right time to take control of their life and begin the process of legal separation.

From a practical standpoint, school provides children with structure, distraction, and emotional outlets. Teachers, counselors, friends, and routines serve as a support system, making it easier for children to process the changes in their home life. In contrast, summer offers far fewer outside supports and distractions for children, which can amplify their stress if a divorce occurs during those months.

For parents who have been unhappy in their marriage, the fresh start of a school year aligns with their own emotional timeline. The contrast between the quiet tension of summer and the predictability of the fall season often highlights deeper issues in the relationship and confirms the need for a formal end to the marriage.

Legal and Procedural Considerations in Texas

Texas law does not require fault for divorce, but the state allows both no-fault and fault-based grounds. Many couples choose to file for divorce on the basis of “insupportability,” meaning the marriage has become insupportable due to conflict that destroys the legitimate ends of the marital relationship. However, in some cases, fault such as adultery or cruelty may be alleged to influence the division of property or conservatorship.

Filing for divorce at the beginning of the school year also provides a clear timeline for temporary orders. In most Texas divorces, especially those involving children, a court will issue temporary orders that establish who stays in the marital home, how the parents will share time with the children, and who will pay support while the divorce is pending. Filing early in the school year ensures that these issues are addressed well before the holidays and gives the family time to adjust.

Courts in Texas will always make custody decisions based on the best interests of the child. Factors that can influence these decisions include the child’s emotional and physical needs, each parent’s parenting abilities, the stability of the home environment, and any history of family violence or substance abuse. Filing in the fall provides more time to present evidence and negotiate terms before the holiday season or the end of the school semester.

Coordinating Divorce with the Academic Calendar

Another reason families often initiate divorce proceedings in the fall is the alignment with the academic calendar. For example, if one parent wants to move out of the family home or relocate within the school district, doing so at the start of the school year minimizes mid-year disruptions. Texas courts are generally reluctant to approve moves that significantly alter a child's schooling unless the change is clearly in the child’s best interest.

At The Barrows Firm, we work with parents to create possession and access schedules that complement the school calendar and accommodate extracurricular activities, holidays, and summer vacations. Filing in the fall allows ample time to create parenting plans that reflect the full school year ahead, rather than scrambling to make temporary arrangements later in the year.

For families with teenagers, coordinating possession schedules with school and work commitments becomes even more important. Having a clear parenting plan in place early in the academic year helps avoid conflicts, miscommunications, and disruptions to the student’s education and social life.

The Importance of Legal Guidance

Navigating a divorce in Texas requires more than paperwork. It demands thoughtful legal strategy, clear communication, and an understanding of each family’s unique dynamics. At The Barrows Firm, we recognize the emotional and logistical challenges of timing a divorce around a child’s school year. We help clients weigh their options, protect their rights, and make decisions that promote long-term stability for their children.

Attorney Leslie Barrows brings years of experience guiding families through divorce, custody, and support matters in Southlake and throughout Tarrant County. Whether you are preparing to file or responding to a petition, it is essential to understand how the law applies to your situation and to work with an attorney who prioritizes both legal outcomes and family well-being.

If you are considering filing for divorce now that the school year has begun, reach out to schedule a confidential consultation. The decisions you make today will shape your family’s future, and we are here to help you move forward with clarity, strength, and confidence.

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Back-to-school season is an exciting time for children, but it can present real challenges for co-parents who must navigate logistical and emotional complexities together. A strong co-parenting partnership can help ease this transition and set children up for a positive academic year. With thoughtful planning, healthy communication, and a focus on the child’s needs, co-parents can work together to ensure a smooth start to the school year. The following ten strategies can make a significant difference in how your child adjusts and thrives.

1. Review and Update the Parenting Plan

Before the first bell rings, both parents should review their parenting plan or court-ordered agreement to ensure it aligns with the current school schedule. This includes custody exchanges, transportation responsibilities, and school holidays. School-year logistics can be quite different from summer routines, so addressing discrepancies in advance helps avoid confusion. If updates are needed, it is best to agree in writing to ensure clarity and accountability.

For example, if one parent starts a new job that interferes with morning drop-offs, it could disrupt the child’s schedule if not discussed ahead of time. A solution could be agreeing that the other parent handles drop-offs in exchange for evening pickups. If disagreements arise, working with a mediator or family attorney to modify the order may help both sides reach a workable solution that best supports the child.

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2. Communicate with Each Other and the School

Clear, respectful, and consistent communication between co-parents is one of the most important factors in a child’s academic success. Make sure both parents are listed as contacts with the school and have access to report cards, newsletters, and event notices. Teachers and administrators should know who is authorized to pick up the child and how to reach each parent. This ensures that both parents remain involved and informed.

A common issue occurs when only one parent receives communication from the school and does not share it with the other. This may cause missed parent-teacher conferences or forgotten assignments. To solve this, parents can jointly email teachers at the beginning of the year and request that both be copied on all school correspondence. Using communication platforms like ClassDojo, Google Classroom, or a shared email address can keep everyone in the loop.

3. Coordinate School Supplies and Clothing

Back-to-school shopping is often exciting for children, but can become a point of conflict for co-parents. Decide early who will purchase which supplies and whether costs will be shared equally or divided by categories such as school supplies versus clothing. Make a shared checklist and communicate about preferences and budgets to prevent overlap or tension.

For instance, if one parent buys an expensive backpack and the other purchases generic supplies, feelings of imbalance may arise. To prevent this, agree in advance on a budget and stick to it. If one parent wants to go beyond the agreed amount, they can choose to do so without expecting reimbursement. Documenting purchases and sharing receipts can help clarify expectations and reduce unnecessary disputes.

4. Sync Calendars and Schedules

Children’s school calendars are filled with important dates such as early dismissals, holidays, sports events, and school picture days. Co-parents can benefit from syncing calendars to stay aligned. Shared digital tools like Google Calendar, OurFamilyWizard, or Cozi allow both parents to add, view, and receive reminders for school-related activities.

A missed event, like a parent-teacher night or an after-school performance, can be hurtful to a child and create emotional stress. If this happens, a productive solution is to address it calmly and reaffirm each parent’s commitment to staying informed. Going forward, agree to set calendar reminders for each event and review the calendar together each week. Consistency is key in building trust between co-parents and with the child.

5. Establish Consistent Routines

Children do best when they know what to expect. Routines for bedtime, homework, mealtime, and screen time provide structure and promote healthy habits. While homes may differ, co-parents should strive for consistency in the basic routines to help children transition easily between households and maintain academic focus.

Confusion can arise when one home enforces a 9 p.m. bedtime and the other allows screens past midnight. This discrepancy may lead to exhaustion and poor performance in school. A solution is for parents to agree on a core routine, such as homework before dinner and lights out by 9 p.m. Customizing details to fit each household while maintaining shared goals helps the child adjust and feel secure.

6. Discuss Homework and Academic Goals

Co-parents should discuss how they will support their child’s academic progress. This includes setting expectations for grades, monitoring homework completion, and providing a quiet space to study. Agree on how to handle late or missing assignments and how to reward effort and improvement.

Tension can build if one parent is heavily involved in homework while the other leaves the child unsupervised. The child may begin to associate school success with one parent only, creating imbalance and resentment. To address this, both parents can agree to set aside daily homework time, use a shared homework log, and check in weekly about academic progress. This teamwork encourages the child to take ownership of their learning.

7. Create a Unified Message

Children are quick to spot differences in parenting styles and may try to use them to their advantage. When parents present a united front, children feel more secure and less inclined to test boundaries. Whether it’s about school rules, discipline, or celebrating milestones, delivering a consistent message reinforces stability.

For example, if one parent enforces consequences for missed homework while the other dismisses it, the child may become confused and less accountable. A good practice is to talk ahead of time about responses to academic or behavioral issues and agree on how to explain them to the child. Regular communication helps prevent mixed messages and reinforces shared values.

8. Prepare for Extracurriculars

Extracurricular activities are a vital part of a child’s development. Whether it’s soccer, piano, robotics, or debate team, participating in these activities requires time, transportation, fees, and emotional support. Co-parents should discuss activity schedules in advance and determine how to share responsibilities fairly.

A common pitfall is when one parent signs the child up for an activity without consulting the other, leading to scheduling conflicts or resentment over costs. The solution is to discuss extracurriculars at the start of each season and create a written plan for transportation, attendance, and cost-sharing. When both parents attend games or performances and cheer from the sidelines, children feel supported and valued by both parents.

9. Check in Emotionally

The start of a new school year can stir up anxiety, especially in children adjusting to life between two homes. Checking in emotionally means talking to your child about their feelings and letting them know it’s okay to feel nervous, excited, or unsure. Make space for open conversations and offer reassurance.

Some children may act out or withdraw if they feel pulled between parents during stressful times. Signs may include trouble sleeping, a sudden drop in grades, or refusal to go to school. If this happens, both parents should address it together. Seeking guidance from a school counselor or child therapist may help. Reinforce that both homes are safe spaces where feelings are welcomed and respected.

10. Keep the Focus on the Child

The most important thing co-parents can do is keep the focus on the child’s well-being. Letting go of personal grievances and choosing cooperation over conflict sets a powerful example. Even if communication is limited, keeping exchanges respectful and child-centered benefits everyone.

Problems often arise when school-related matters become opportunities to revisit old arguments. For instance, debating which parent has “done more” this school year can derail progress. The solution is to shift the focus back to the child’s needs and successes. Celebrate together when your child brings home a good report card or earns a new achievement. Prioritizing peace over pride helps children feel loved and supported by both parents.

At The Barrows Firm in Southlake, we understand that co-parenting during the school year can be challenging, especially when legal or logistical questions arise. Our team of experienced family law professionals can help you review, modify, or enforce parenting plans so your child can succeed both at home and in the classroom. Whether you need guidance before the school year begins or support during an unexpected issue, we are here to help.

Contact The Barrows Firm today to schedule a consultation and give your family the confident start it deserves this school year.

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In Texas family law, more parents are seeking equal or 50/50 shared custody schedules following divorce or separation. While the idea of equal parenting time may sound ideal, it is often more difficult to implement than people realize. At The Barrows Firm, we regularly work with families in Southlake, Tarrant, and Denton Counties who are navigating the complex reality of custody arrangements. Although shared parenting may seem fair on paper, several legal and practical barriers must be considered before parents can realistically commit to a true 50/50 schedule.

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Geographic and Logistical Barriers Make Equal Time Challenging

For a 50/50 custody schedule to function effectively, both parents must live close to each other and to the child’s school and activities. When parents reside in the same neighborhood or within a short commute, equal time can be more manageable. However, when one parent moves even 30 miles away, it can disrupt the child’s school routine, extracurriculars, and daily rhythm. In Texas, there are expanded standard possession orders that allow for closer to equal time, but only when parents live within 50 miles of each other.

Even when geographic proximity isn’t an issue, work schedules, transportation, and after-school logistics can complicate an equal split. One parent may work nights or travel frequently for business, while the other handles day-to-day routines. Judges in Texas family courts consider the child's best interests first, and if the proposed 50/50 schedule causes unnecessary disruption or stress, the court may decide against it, regardless of the parents’ preferences.

Co-Parenting Cooperation Is Essential, But Not Always Realistic

A successful 50/50 custody arrangement depends heavily on the ability of both parents to communicate and cooperate effectively. Equal time-sharing requires consistent coordination for school pickups, extracurricular activities, healthcare, and more. Parents must be willing to compromise, communicate respectfully, and keep the child’s needs at the forefront of every decision. When parents have high levels of conflict or unresolved emotional issues from the divorce, these cooperative behaviors can be difficult to maintain.

In high-conflict cases, 50/50 custody often leads to more disputes rather than fewer. Missed exchanges, conflicting schedules, or disagreements over rules and expectations can create instability for the child. Judges are less likely to grant equal parenting time if they believe the parents cannot co-parent without significant conflict. Attorney Leslie Barrows regularly helps clients evaluate whether a shared schedule is truly in the best interest of their child or if a more traditional arrangement might provide greater consistency and peace of mind.

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Texas Law Does Not Automatically Presume Equal Possession

There is a common misconception that Texas courts presume equal time or 50/50 custody in all cases. While Texas law presumes that both parents should be named joint managing conservators, sharing decision-making authority over the child, this does not mean equal physical possession. In most cases, one parent is still designated as the “primary” parent with the right to determine the child’s primary residence, and the other parent is given visitation based on a standard or modified schedule.

Legislative efforts in Texas have been made to create a presumption of equal parenting time, but to date, no law has been passed that requires 50/50 custody as a starting point. Judges retain discretion to determine what arrangement best serves the child’s interests, considering factors like age, maturity, parental involvement, and stability. It is possible for parents to agree to a 50/50 schedule in mediation or through a parenting plan, but unless both parents are on board and can demonstrate that it works, the court may opt for a more traditional structure.

Life Changes and Evolving Needs Can Disrupt Shared Schedules

Even when a 50/50 schedule is initially approved, maintaining it over time presents additional challenges. As children grow older, their academic demands, social calendars, and personal preferences evolve. What works for a five-year-old may not work for a teenager involved in sports, part-time work, or college preparation. New relationships, job changes, or remarriages can also impact the ability to stick to a rigid equal-time plan.

Leslie Barrows frequently advises clients to build flexibility into their parenting agreements, allowing for revisions as life circumstances change. Courts in Texas allow for custody modifications when there has been a material and substantial change in circumstances. Still, if the original 50/50 agreement was the result of careful negotiation or litigation, making changes later may require returning to court and presenting new evidence to support the modification.

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Professional Guidance Can Make or Break a 50/50 Custody Request

Pursuing a 50/50 custody schedule requires a clear and strategic legal approach. The court must be shown that both parents are equally capable and committed to serving the child’s needs. In some cases, the court may appoint a custody evaluator, amicus attorney, or guardian ad litem to investigate and make recommendations. These professionals will assess each parent’s home environment, ability to provide care, and willingness to cooperate.

Attorney Leslie Barrows helps clients prepare for these evaluations and ensures that they are putting their best foot forward throughout the process. When one parent has a stronger history of involvement or can offer greater consistency, the court may be reluctant to disrupt the child’s stability by shifting to a 50/50 arrangement. For that reason, it’s important to build a case with evidence that supports not only your ability to care for the child but also your readiness to collaborate with the other parent long-term.

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The idea of shared parenting appeals to many separating or divorcing parents, but a 50/50 custody schedule in Texas is not a guarantee. Every family situation is different, and the courts prioritize the child’s best interests above all. If you are considering a shared custody schedule, it’s essential to consult with a family law attorney who can guide you through the process and help you understand what is realistic and what is not.

Attorney Leslie Barrows and her team at The Barrows Firm in Southlake provide experienced and compassionate legal counsel in all areas of family law. From negotiating parenting plans to representing clients in custody hearings, Leslie helps families find solutions that work and last. Schedule a consultation today by calling (817) 481-1583 or visiting www.BarrowsFirm.com.

In the fast pace of everyday life, truly listening to others can feel like a lost art. On World Listening Day, we are reminded just how powerful listening can be, especially in emotionally charged situations like divorce, child custody, and family restructuring. At The Barrows Firm in Southlake, we see every day how good listening can defuse conflict, improve outcomes, and foster long-term stability for families throughout North Texas.

Miscommunication and Misunderstanding: The Root of Family Conflict

One of the most common causes of conflict in family law matters is miscommunication. Whether a parent believes the other is violating a custody agreement or two spouses are struggling to finalize a divorce settlement, the problem often boils down to one or both people not feeling heard or understood. In our Southlake office, we regularly assist clients from surrounding communities like Keller, Grapevine, and Colleyville who are in the middle of tense disputes that escalated because neither party felt the other was truly listening.

For example, in a recent North Texas case involving a standard possession schedule, a father believed the mother was denying him his weekend visitation. However, when we examined the facts and encouraged both parties to listen without interruption, it became clear that the mother was attempting to follow a holiday exception. The misunderstanding could have easily led to litigation, but because both parties were willing to stop, listen, and seek clarity, they reached a resolution with limited legal intervention.

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Listening in the Courtroom and in Mediation

Listening is not just a tool for interpersonal relationships. It is also a critical part of successful family law practice. Judges in Denton, Tarrant, and Dallas counties are highly experienced in spotting litigants who are overly reactive, emotional, or combative. Attorneys who demonstrate that their clients are reasonable and willing to listen are far more effective in securing favorable results.

In mediation sessions, where many North Texas divorces and custody cases are resolved, listening becomes even more important. Mediators often ask parties to reflect on what they heard before responding. This technique, called reflective listening, reduces assumptions and opens the door to compromise. At The Barrows Firm, we prepare clients to be active participants in these conversations, which often leads to faster, less expensive, and less stressful outcomes.

How Co-Parents in Southlake Can Use Listening to Improve Communication

Parents who share custody must communicate regularly, and the quality of that communication can have a significant impact on their children. When parents do not listen to one another, children often pick up on the tension and feel caught in the middle. This is especially true in high-conflict custody situations, which are common throughout the Southlake area and surrounding school districts.

We frequently work with clients who use co-parenting apps such as OurFamilyWizard or TalkingParents to manage communication. Even in these written formats, it is possible to practice active listening by responding thoughtfully, acknowledging the other parent's point of view, and sticking to the facts. We encourage parents to read messages twice before reacting and to respond only after calming their emotions. These habits model respect and cooperation, and they support the children’s emotional health.

Listening as a Foundation for Better Parenting Plans

Family law attorneys often help parents build or modify parenting plans that outline the day-to-day structure of their child’s life. When parents are willing to listen to one another’s concerns, preferences, and needs, they are far more likely to create a workable plan that minimizes future disputes. For instance, a parent in Flower Mound may request a custom pickup time to accommodate a long work commute. If the other parent listens and shows flexibility, it creates goodwill and reduces the chances of future conflict over scheduling.

Listening to Clients: A Barrows Firm Commitment

At The Barrows Firm, we believe that listening is more than a strategy. It is a sign of respect, compassion, and professionalism. Attorney Leslie Barrows and our team are known throughout Southlake and North Texas for taking the time to understand each client's goals and emotions. We do not believe in one-size-fits-all solutions. Instead, we listen carefully so we can develop a plan that aligns with your unique needs.

Whether you are going through a divorce, negotiating a custody agreement, or considering a modification of orders, listening plays a key role in your success. When clients feel heard by their attorneys, they are more confident, better prepared, and less likely to make decisions based on emotion.

On World Listening Day, Let’s Choose to Hear Each Other

As we reflect on World Listening Day, we challenge everyone in our community to pause and listen more deeply. Whether you are a parent, a spouse, or a professional, make space for the voices around you. Listen not just to respond, but to understand.

If you are facing a family law matter and want an advocate who listens and responds with wisdom, contact The Barrows Firm in Southlake today.

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Supporting Emotional Stability Through Uncertainty

In the aftermath of recent tragic flooding events across Texas, including heartbreaking losses of children at summer camps, families across the state are dealing with a renewed sense of fear and vulnerability. These events are unsettling for all of us, but especially for children who are already navigating emotional challenges, such as the divorce or separation of their parents.

For children going through a family law matter, traumatic news like flash flood fatalities can be particularly destabilizing. The normal stress of adjusting to two households or new parenting schedules can be compounded by growing anxiety about their safety and future. When a child already feels uncertain, hearing news of kids losing their lives in unexpected natural disasters can lead to fear spirals and emotional regressions.

At The Barrows Firm, we work closely with families in Southlake and throughout North Texas to help them build and maintain emotional security for their children. One of the most important responsibilities parents and co-parents share is helping children feel safe, even in the face of tragedy.

Please also see our related article: Best Interests of the Child: When to Litigate, When to Settle

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Understanding the Emotional Impact of Tragedy During Divorce

When children hear about deaths from natural disasters or other frightening events, it can shake their core belief that the world is a safe place. In healthy family environments, kids might ask questions and receive comfort and age-appropriate reassurance. But when divorce or custody disputes are in progress, children may not feel comfortable expressing those fears, or they might already be feeling emotionally raw and overwhelmed.

A child who appears withdrawn, anxious, or unusually angry could be experiencing emotional fallout from external tragedy in addition to their family restructuring. It is vital for parents to be present and to acknowledge that fear is real, even when it seems irrational from an adult perspective.

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Strategies for Talking to Children About Tragedy

Open and honest communication, tailored to a child’s age and emotional development, can help them process difficult events. While it may seem easier to shield them from bad news, children often sense when something is wrong, and silence can increase their anxiety.

Parents should take the time to talk to their children about recent tragedies in a calm and supportive manner. Acknowledge what happened, allow them to ask questions, and let them know it is okay to feel scared or confused. Let children know you are there for them and that you are working with the other parent to keep them safe.

Providing Reassurance Through Stability and Routine

Even amid a divorce or custody case, co-parents should prioritize consistency and routine for the sake of the children. Children feel safer when they know what to expect. Keeping regular schedules for school, activities, and bedtime can create a sense of normalcy.

When tragic events make children question whether the world is safe, parents have a powerful opportunity to reinforce the parts of life that are steady. That may include special traditions, time with extended family, or therapy sessions with a licensed counselor.

When to Seek Professional Support

If your child is struggling to cope after a tragedy or is showing signs of prolonged anxiety or depression, consider seeking help from a child therapist or counselor. Legal professionals at The Barrows Firm are also here to support your family by helping you navigate the legal process in a way that minimizes stress and maximizes emotional support.

Co-parenting plans can be adapted to include language around communication, counseling, and crisis response. Our attorneys understand the importance of emotional well-being in child custody cases and can provide guidance that puts your child’s best interests at the center.

The Barrows Firm Is Here for Your Family

At The Barrows Firm in Southlake, Texas, we understand that legal family matters intersect with real-life events that impact our children. When tragedy strikes, it is more crucial than ever for families to come together to offer reassurance and emotional support. Whether you need legal representation, guidance on a co-parenting plan, or referrals to child-focused mental health professionals, we are here to help.

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Texas Legislative Session Final Update: What Families Need to Know, June 6, 2025

The 89th Texas Legislative Session concluded on June 2, 2025, with significant legislation passed that will affect families across the state. Governor Greg Abbott has until June 22 to sign or veto bills passed in the final days of the session. Here are the most relevant updates for Texas families:

1. Family Law and Child Welfare

• Senate Bill 1398: This bill introduces new procedures for suits affecting the parent-child relationship, particularly for children under the conservatorship of the Department of Family and Protective Services. It emphasizes family preservation services and community-based foster care. (legiscan.com)
  
  

2. Estate Planning and Probate

• House Bill 3395: This legislation simplifies the transfer of ownership for manufactured homes classified as personal property upon the owner's death. It allows individuals to designate a beneficiary to receive their interest in such a home through a “beneficiary designation,” bypassing the probate process. (texaspolicyresearch.com)
  
  

3. Education and Cultural Legislation

• Senate Bill 10: Mandates that public schools display the Ten Commandments in classrooms.
  
  
• Senate Bill 2: Establishes a $1 billion private school voucher program, marking Texas's first school choice initiative. (houstonchronicle.com)
  
  

4. Property Tax and Insurance Reforms

• Senate Bill 4: Implements property tax cuts aimed at providing relief to homeowners.
  
  
• Insurance Legislation: While broad reforms to reduce home insurance costs were not enacted, lawmakers approved $100 million in aid for coastal school districts facing spiking insurance costs. (houstonchronicle.com)
  
  

5. Technology and Data Privacy

• Texas Responsible AI Governance Act (TRAIGA): This act prohibits government use of social scoring systems and the use of AI for identifying individuals through publicly available images. It also restricts businesses from using biometric data for commercial purposes, with penalties up to $25,000. (statesman.com)
  
  

Stay Informed with The Barrows Firm

As these legislative changes take effect, The Barrows Firm remains committed to guiding Texas families through the evolving legal landscape. If you have questions about how these new laws may impact your family or estate planning, please contact our office for personalized assistance.

Supporting Fathers Through Divorce and Custody at The Barrows Firm

Father’s Day is Sunday, June 15, 2025. This is a day to recognize and appreciate the fathers who serve, support, and lead their families. In a place like Southlake, where many dads are busy professionals and community leaders, Father’s Day can be a joyful celebration or, for some, a reminder of challenges they are working to overcome.

At The Barrows Firm, we stand proudly with fathers, especially those facing divorce or custody issues. Our firm is committed to helping dads protect their rights, preserve their parent-child relationships, and build strong futures. While the legal system in Texas is written to be gender-neutral, we know firsthand that fathers often worry whether they will be treated fairly. That’s why we focus on strategy, communication, and long-term outcomes that reflect what matters most: being present, involved, and connected to your children.

Fathers Have Rights and Responsibilities That Matter

Many fathers come to us with important concerns. They want to know what custody and visitation will look like. They want to stay actively involved in school, sports, and daily life. Some need help modifying or enforcing child support. Others are dealing with relocation issues or complicated scheduling conflicts. Whatever the concern, we help fathers navigate the legal system with confidence and clarity.

When a divorce or custody case begins, we work quickly to help secure fair and effective temporary orders. These orders create the structure that guides parenting, finances, and communication while the case is pending. From there, we focus on long-term custody and parenting plans that reflect the realities of life and the needs of the children. Fathers deserve time with their children, and they deserve to have their voices heard in the courtroom and at the negotiation table.

A Meaningful Father’s Day Starts with Gratitude, and a Great Gift

For many families in Southlake, finding the perfect Father’s Day gift can be a challenge. These are dads who already have the latest technology, well-stocked garages, and well-earned confidence in their own style. This year, consider giving a gift that speaks to his legacy, his values, and his connection to family.

A thoughtful and personalized item such as a leather-bound family journal, a monogrammed watch box, or an engraved pocketknife can show deep appreciation. Experiences can also make powerful gifts. You might consider arranging a family day at the Texas Motor Speedway, booking a concert evening at Dickies Arena, or planning a weekend fishing trip to Possum Kingdom Lake. Health and wellness gifts are always well-received. Personal training, chiropractic memberships, or therapeutic services can offer dads a chance to focus on themselves. For dads who appreciate a refined evening, a private whiskey tasting or cigar lounge membership might be just right. And sometimes, the most memorable gifts come from the heart. Custom golf balls featuring the kids’ handwriting, a framed photo of a shared memory, or a “Dad and Me” photo session can be treasured for years.

Fatherhood Is Forever

Whether married, divorced, or somewhere in between, fatherhood does not pause for life’s transitions. It continues, grows, and evolves. The bond between father and child is essential, and it is worth protecting and nurturing; even during the most difficult times.

This Father’s Day, we salute all the dads who give their best every day. And for those going through a divorce or custody matter, know that you do not have to go through it alone. The team at The Barrows Firm is here to guide you, support you, and help you build the future your children deserve.

Contact The Barrows Firm Today

Located in the heart of Southlake, The Barrows Firm provides experienced legal representation in divorce, custody, support, and all areas of family law. We advocate for fathers who are committed to doing the right thing and want to stay present and active in their children’s lives.

To schedule a consultation or learn more, call us or visit our website at www.BarrowsFirm.com. We are here to help when you need trusted family law counsel.

Happy Father’s Day to all the dedicated dads in Southlake and beyond. Thank you for everything you do.

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As the 89th Texas Legislative Session approaches its conclusion on June 2, several significant developments have occurred this week that may impact families across the state.

1. Bail Reform Measures Advance Amid Setbacks

Governor Greg Abbott has declared success in his efforts to reform Texas bail laws, despite significant setbacks as House Democrats blocked key proposals. The rejected measures included provisions to automatically deny bail to repeat violent offenders and unauthorized immigrants accused of certain crimes. These were part of Abbott's broader initiative to toughen pretrial release standards, which he claims would enhance public safety. (Houston Chronicle)

2. Social Media Restrictions for Minors Fail to Pass

A proposed bill aiming to ban social media accounts for individuals under 18 failed to pass after lawmakers did not bring it to a vote before the legislative session deadline. The bill, already approved by the GOP-controlled House, would have become one of the strictest measures in the U.S. Opposition from tech trade groups and concerns of unconstitutional free speech limits contributed to its downfall. Despite this defeat, Governor Greg Abbott recently signed a different law requiring Apple and Google to verify users’ ages and require parental consent for minors' app use. (AP News)

3. Ten Commandments Display in Public Schools Faces Legal Challenges

Senate Bill 10, which mandates that public schools display the Ten Commandments in classrooms, has passed the Texas legislature and awaits Governor Greg Abbott's signature. Critics argue the law is unconstitutional, violating the First Amendment’s Establishment Clause. Opponents warn the bill could marginalize students of other faiths and secular beliefs, turning public schools into religious environments. (Chron)

4. New Legislation Affecting Child Welfare Proceedings

Senate Bill 1398, relating to certain procedures in suits affecting the parent-child relationship for children placed in the conservatorship of the Department of Family and Protective Services, has been enrolled. This bill addresses the provision of family preservation services and community-based foster care. (LegiScan)

Stay Informed with The Barrows Firm

As these legislative developments unfold, The Barrows Firm remains committed to keeping you informed about laws that may affect your family. If you have questions about how these changes could impact your legal rights or responsibilities, please contact our office for guidance.

For reference, please see our post from May 23, 2025, Final Stretch of the 89th Texas Legislative Session: Key Bills That Could Impact Texas Families

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Smart Summer Co-Parenting in Texas: Legal Tips to Keep the Peace and Enjoy the Break

Summer break should be a time for fun, relaxation, and creating lasting memories, but for co-parents, it can also bring unique challenges. Between extended vacations, altered schedules, and increased time off school, it’s important for families to prepare early and thoughtfully. At The Barrows Firm in Southlake, we help families navigate parenting plans that work, especially during transitional times like summer break.

Understanding Summer Possession in Texas

Texas Standard Possession Orders (SPOs) include specific guidelines for summer visitation. Typically, the non-custodial parent (known as the possessory conservator) is entitled to extended summer possession, up to 30 days. However, each situation is unique, and modifications to the SPO may apply based on the child’s age, family needs, or prior court agreements.

The deadline for providing notice of intended summer visitation dates is April 1st. If no notice is given, default dates, often July 1st to July 31st, may apply. If there’s any confusion about how these orders work, a consultation with a family law attorney can help clarify your rights and obligations.

Planning Summer Schedules Early

Successful co-parenting over the summer starts with communication and early planning. It’s important to have a clear plan for vacations, summer camps, and other activities that might affect the regular parenting schedule. The more details worked out in advance, the fewer conflicts you'll encounter as summer progresses.

Childcare arrangements are also critical, especially if both parents work full-time. Parents should discuss coverage during weekdays and ensure that both households understand who is responsible when. If outside childcare is needed, both parents should agree on the provider and schedule.

Travel arrangements should also be discussed well in advance. If one parent plans to take the child out of state or out of the country, it’s essential to determine whether written consent or court approval is required. Always double-check the terms of your custody order before booking travel.

Travel and Legal Documentation

Before traveling with your child, make sure you have the appropriate documentation. This may include a written travel consent letter from the other parent, especially if your trip crosses state lines or involves international travel. Having documents prepared in advance helps ensure a smooth and stress-free vacation.

It’s also a good idea to carry copies of your court orders while traveling. Bring your child’s passport, health insurance card, and emergency contact information. These documents can be important in both routine and unexpected situations while away from home.

If you anticipate a disagreement about travel, address it as early as possible. Waiting until the last minute can result in unnecessary legal complications or even canceled plans. A family law attorney can help resolve disputes or request court intervention if needed.

Avoiding Summer Custody Conflicts

Even the most cooperative co-parents may encounter challenges during the summer. Common disputes include overlapping vacation plans, disagreements over extended visitation, and concerns about supervision or travel destinations. Open communication and early planning are key to avoiding these issues.

When disagreements do arise, it’s important to refer to the custody order. This document serves as the legal guide for resolving conflicts, even when parents disagree. If a situation becomes unmanageable, seeking legal advice is often the most effective way forward.

Parents who experience recurring problems may benefit from a modified parenting plan. Courts can approve changes that better suit the child’s best interests and the family’s evolving needs. Whether temporary or permanent, legal modifications must be approved through proper court procedures.

When You Should Consult a Family Law Attorney

If this is your first summer with a new custody order or if your co-parenting dynamic has recently changed, legal advice can be essential. A family law attorney can help you understand your summer rights and responsibilities and work with you to develop or revise parenting plans. It’s better to be proactive than to deal with disputes in the middle of summer.

An attorney can also help enforce existing orders when the other parent doesn’t comply. Whether you need assistance with communication, scheduling, or court filings, legal support ensures your time with your child is protected. At The Barrows Firm, we’re here to guide parents through these processes with care and professionalism.

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Remember that Tarrant County does not have automatic standing orders like some neighboring counties. If you need protection during custody proceedings, voluntary Temporary Restraining Orders (TROs) may be requested with the court. We help clients navigate this process effectively, ensuring your rights and your child’s well-being are preserved.

Summer doesn’t have to be stressful for co-parents. With proper planning, open communication, and legal guidance when necessary, your family can enjoy a smooth and memorable summer break. Whether you need help enforcing an order or adjusting a summer parenting plan, we’re here to help.

Contact The Barrows Firm in Southlake today to schedule a consultation and protect your summer parenting time.

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Texas 89th Legislative Session Update – Week Ending May 23, 2025
From the Desk of Southlake Family Law Attorney Leslie Barrows

As the 89th Texas Legislative Session nears its conclusion, we are watching several key bills that could shape family law, estate planning, and everyday life for Texans. Here’s a quick look at what’s moving through the Capitol and what it could mean for our families and futures:

Family Law & Estate Planning Highlights

While no major family law bills have been signed into law yet, a few could impact parental rights, estate administration, and community property if amendments or late-session legislation surface. We are monitoring for last-minute proposals affecting custody, conservatorship, child support, and guardianships. As always, we’ll share updates on any new statutes that may impact how we serve our clients and protect families.

One relevant bill to note:

• SB 5 – Dementia Research Fund (Sent to Governor Abbott)
  This bill establishes funding for dementia research. While not directly a family law measure, it reflects growing concern around aging Texans, which can influence future guardianship and estate planning discussions.
  
  

Bills That May Affect Every Texan

Several significant bills are making headlines and may impact daily life across Texas:

• SB 1 – State Budget (In the Works)
  The backbone of all state services, including the courts. We’ll see how allocations affect family law courts and support services for children and families.
  
  
• SB 4 – Cutting Property Taxes (In the Works)
  It could ease financial pressures on families and homeowners, especially important in high-growth areas like ours.
  
  
• HB 2 – Increasing Public School Funding (In the Works)
  Supports Texas families by potentially improving education quality and access.
  
  
• SB 7 & HJR 7 – Funding Water Infrastructure & Texas Water Fund (In the Works)
  Important for long-term sustainability and quality of life, critical as Texas continues to grow.
  
  
• SB 38 – Speeding Up Evictions (In the Works)
  This bill could impact families in housing crises and may intersect with child custody or support issues in court.
  
  
• HB 186 – Banning Social Media for Children (In the Works)
  Raises important questions around parental rights and digital parenting responsibilities.
  
  

Signed into Law

• SB 2 – Education Savings Accounts
  Now law, this bill introduces education savings accounts, reshaping how families plan and pay for their children's schooling.
  
  
• SB 326 – Antisemitism Bill
  Reflects broader protections against discrimination across public spaces, including schools.
  
  

Stay Tuned

We’re closely monitoring:

• SB 2880 (Abortion pills)
  
  
• SB 31 (Emergency abortion exceptions – Sent to Governor)
  
  
• SJR 5 (Tighten bail laws)
  
  
• SB 6 (Energy grid regulation)
  These may not be family law issues per se but could intersect with broader rights and responsibilities of Texans, especially vulnerable populations.

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Texas Legislature Online - 89th Legislature Regular Session

The 89th legislative session and details about bills and the process are found on the official state website, Texas Legislature Online.

Texas Tribune - Comprehensive Bill Tracking and Reporting

Historically, and despite any party or detailed preferences, the Texas Tribune has been accepted by many as a source for identifying the status of several bills, where they are in the legislative process, and links to more information. 

The Texas Tribune 2025 Legislative Page & Tracking Major Bills

Final Thoughts from Leslie Barrows

“As we approach the end of the session, we remain vigilant in tracking legislation that could impact our clients, from custody and conservatorship to financial protections and constitutional rights. Our commitment is to keep you informed and prepared for the road ahead.”

Follow us on social media or visit www.BarrowsFirm.com for updates.

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Supporting Our Service Members: Family Law and Estate Planning for Military Families

May is Military Appreciation Month, a time to recognize and honor the sacrifices made by our service members and their families. At The Barrows Firm in Southlake, Texas, we are proud to support military families with legal services tailored to their unique circumstances. Whether navigating a divorce, resolving child custody matters, or creating an estate plan, military members, veterans, and their families benefit from working with experienced family law attorneys who understand military-specific issues.

Military Divorce: Understanding the Unique Challenges

Divorce in Texas is never easy, but when one or both spouses are serving in the military, additional legal and logistical considerations come into play. From deployments to jurisdictional questions, military divorces require a specialized approach.

Jurisdiction: Military families often move frequently, making it complicated to determine where to file for divorce. Texas law allows service members to file for divorce in the county where they are stationed or where they claim residency. Having experienced legal guidance can ensure the right venue is selected to protect your rights.

Division of Military Benefits: Military pensions, retirement plans, and VA benefits may be divided during divorce proceedings. The Uniformed Services Former Spouses’ Protection Act (USFSPA) outlines how military benefits are treated and what is considered community property. Understanding how these laws apply is critical when negotiating a fair division of assets.

Custody and Visitation: Parenting during active military service can be challenging due to frequent moves and deployments. Service members need custody arrangements that are both fair and flexible, allowing for continued involvement in their children’s lives. Custom parenting plans can address anticipated military obligations while prioritizing the best interests of the children.

Read our article: Winning From the Driver’s Seat: Custody Strategy 

Servicemembers Civil Relief Act (SCRA): This federal law protects active-duty service members involved in civil legal matters like divorce or custody. Courts must accommodate deployment-related delays and cannot enter default judgments while the service member is away. Legal representation familiar with SCRA can ensure those protections are honored.

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Child Custody and Support for Military Parents

Military parents face unique circumstances that affect how custody and support issues are handled. The Barrows Firm works with both active-duty service members and their co-parents to create sustainable and effective family law solutions.

Parenting Plans That Travel: Military life often requires relocation, which can disrupt standard visitation schedules. A parenting plan for a military family must be adaptable to travel, distance, and changes in duty stations. We help parents create agreements that keep the children connected to both parents, even across time zones.

Temporary Custody Solutions: During deployment, service members need to ensure their children are cared for by a trusted person. This is often addressed through a Family Care Plan, which the military requires of single parents and dual-military couples. These plans can be supported by legal documents that designate temporary custody and provide clear authority to caregivers.

Enforcing and Modifying Support Orders: Military pay includes different components such as Basic Allowance for Housing (BAH), hazardous duty pay, and more. These elements must be considered when calculating child support obligations fairly. We also assist with modifying orders if a service member’s income changes significantly due to deployment or duty changes.

Estate Planning for Military Members and Veterans

Estate planning is vital for service members and veterans who want to protect their loved ones and prepare for the unexpected. At The Barrows Firm, we proudly offer affordable and often discounted estate planning services for active-duty military and veterans during Military Appreciation Month and throughout the year.

Wills and Trusts: A valid will or trust allows service members to outline exactly how they want their assets distributed. Trusts can help avoid probate and ensure a smoother process for surviving family members. These tools are particularly important for families with minor children or complex financial situations.

Powers of Attorney: Designating a power of attorney lets someone you trust make legal and financial decisions on your behalf. This is crucial for service members who may be deployed or otherwise unable to handle personal affairs. A durable power of attorney ensures that your finances are managed in your best interest.

Medical Directives: A medical directive, or living will, outlines your healthcare wishes if you’re unable to communicate them yourself. This ensures your choices are respected, even in a crisis. Combined with a medical power of attorney, these documents provide clear instructions to doctors and loved ones.

Military Benefits Planning: Service members and veterans have access to important benefits, including life insurance, retirement plans, and survivor benefits. Integrating these into an estate plan helps ensure your family is financially secure. Our team helps clients coordinate these benefits to fit into their broader estate goals.

Special Military Appreciation Month Offer

In honor of Military Appreciation Month, The Barrows Firm is proud to offer free consultations and 25% off hourly rates for all active-duty service members, veterans, and military families throughout the month of May. We believe in showing our appreciation with real, practical support for those who serve and protect our nation. Whether you need assistance with a family law matter or want to get your estate plan in place, we are here to serve you with compassion, integrity, and experience.

We Honor Those Who Serve

The Barrows Firm is proud to support those who serve and have served our country. If you or a loved one is facing a divorce, custody matter, or needs an estate plan tailored to the military lifestyle, we are here to help.

Contact The Barrows Firm today at www.BarrowsFirm.com or call (817) 481-1583 to schedule your free consultation during Military Appreciation Month.

Helping Children Heal: Rehabilitative Support After Abuse

April is recognized as National Child Abuse Prevention Month, a time dedicated to raising awareness about the various forms of child abuse and the importance of prevention efforts. However, the commitment to safeguarding children's well-being should extend beyond a single month, as abuse can have lasting impacts on a child's physical, emotional, and psychological health.

In Tarrant County, Texas, families and caregivers have access to a range of resources aimed at preventing child abuse and supporting children who have experienced trauma. Local organizations such as Alliance For Children and Tarrant County’s Children's Advocate Center provide critical services, including forensic interviews, counseling, and family support. The Texas Department of Family and Protective Services (DFPS) also operates regional offices to investigate abuse reports and offer protective services. Additionally, programs like MHMR of Tarrant County deliver mental health support and crisis intervention for children and families in need. These resources work hand-in-hand with legal professionals, including those at The Barrows Firm, to ensure children’s safety and guide them toward healing and rehabilitation.

Understanding the Scope of Child Abuse

Child abuse encompasses more than just physical harm; it includes emotional abuse, neglect, and exposure to domestic violence. These forms of maltreatment can lead to long-term consequences, such as mental health disorders, substance abuse, and difficulties in forming healthy relationships. Research indicates that early trauma can alter brain development, affecting a child's ability to learn and regulate emotions.

The Importance of Rehabilitative Mental Health Counseling

Rehabilitative counseling plays a crucial role in helping children heal from the effects of abuse. Therapeutic interventions can assist in processing traumatic experiences, developing coping mechanisms, and rebuilding self-esteem. Without appropriate support, children who have experienced abuse may struggle with ongoing psychological issues and are at a higher risk of perpetuating the cycle of abuse in the future.

It's also important to recognize the strong connection between childhood trauma and increased risk for suicidal thoughts and behaviors. Early intervention and access to mental health resources can be life-saving. In Tarrant County, individuals can reach out to the My Health My Resources (MHMR) Tarrant County Crisis Line at 817-335-3022 or toll-free at 1-800-866-2465 for 24/7 support. Nationally, anyone in crisis can contact the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline by dialing 988 or visiting 988lifeline.org for confidential support. Raising awareness about suicide prevention and removing the stigma surrounding mental health are critical steps in helping children, teens, and families find hope and healing after abuse.

Breaking the Cycle Through Awareness and Education

Education is a powerful tool in preventing child abuse and supporting survivors. By understanding the signs of abuse and the factors that contribute to it, communities can intervene early and provide necessary support. Programs that focus on parenting education, stress management, and healthy communication can equip caregivers with the skills needed to create safe and nurturing environments for children.

Listen to our recent podcast with Carol Mapp, LCSW, in which we talk about children and mental health issues. 

The Role of Legal Professionals in Child Protection

Legal professionals, such as those at The Barrows Firm in Southlake, Texas, play a vital role in advocating for children's rights and ensuring their safety. By working closely with mental health professionals, schools, and child protective services, attorneys can help navigate the complexities of family law to prioritize the best interests of the child.

Community Involvement and Support

Preventing child abuse requires a collective effort from the entire community. Engaging in local initiatives, supporting child-focused organizations, and staying informed about the issues surrounding child welfare can make a significant difference. By fostering a culture of vigilance and compassion, communities can create an environment where children feel safe and valued.

Committing to Child Abuse Prevention 

While April serves as a reminder of the importance of child abuse prevention, the commitment to protecting children must be unwavering throughout the year. Through rehabilitative counseling, education, legal advocacy, and community support, we can work together to break the cycle of abuse and promote the health and safety of all children.

For more information on child abuse prevention and support services, visit The Barrows Firm.

April is a Child-Focused Month to Celebrate Awareness

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April is a powerful month of reflection and action for families, advocates, and professionals committed to the well-being of children. At The Barrows Firm in Southlake, we are honored to support families through life’s most challenging transitions, and in doing so, we recognize that every child deserves to feel safe, supported, and understood.

During Child Abuse Prevention Month, we raise our voices to protect vulnerable children. As we honor World Autism Month, we celebrate neurodiversity and the need for specialized care and understanding. And on National Siblings Day, April 10th, we acknowledge the powerful bond between siblings and the role those relationships play in emotional development, healing, and resilience.

‍These three observances overlap in meaningful ways, especially in the context of family law. Here’s how we approach these important topics at The Barrows Firm. Contact Attorney Leslie Barrows for advice and representation. 

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Child Abuse Prevention Month: Advocating for the Safety of Every Child

Child abuse and neglect can have lasting impacts on a child’s physical and emotional health. Family law professionals are often in a unique position to spot signs of abuse during custody disputes, divorce proceedings, or other family legal matters. That’s why we are always vigilant in our responsibility to protect children and advocate for their best interests.

Whether we’re working with Child Protective Services, requesting emergency protective orders, or bringing critical information to the court’s attention, our priority is always the safety and well-being of children. At The Barrows Firm, we understand the legal tools available, and more importantly, we understand how to use them compassionately and effectively.

World Autism Month: Customizing Legal Solutions for Unique Needs

Children with autism often require consistency, structure, and an understanding of their specific needs and behaviors. In family law, this means carefully crafting parenting plans, visitation schedules, and communication strategies that reflect the best interests of the child while accommodating their development and care.

At The Barrows Firm, we work with parents, medical professionals, and court-appointed experts to ensure that every child with autism is placed in an environment that supports their health, growth, and comfort. Whether that means maintaining a stable daily routine, coordinating therapy schedules, or ensuring calm and predictable custody exchanges, we are here to guide parents in building the best possible future for their child.

National Siblings Day: Keeping Families Connected

Sibling relationships often serve as emotional anchors during times of change. Whether children are adjusting to divorce, custody changes, or a new living environment, their bond with a brother or sister can be a vital source of comfort and support.

In our legal work, we always advocate for maintaining sibling relationships whenever it’s safe and appropriate. That includes arguing for joint placements in foster care, recommending sibling visitation rights in custody cases, and addressing sibling dynamics in parenting plans.

We’ve seen firsthand how siblings help one another through trauma, adjustment periods, and developmental challenges. Preserving these connections is just as important as protecting the parent-child relationship.

We Are Here For You at the Barrows Firm

At The Barrows Firm, our mission is rooted in compassion, protection, and the belief that every child deserves a safe, loving environment to grow. April’s observances remind us of the diverse needs children face. Whether we’re protecting children from abuse, supporting families with a child on the autism spectrum, or fighting to keep siblings connected, we are committed to putting children first in every case.

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Spring in Texas: It’s Baseball Season, and Kids Love Being Involved in Sports!

Today is opening day for the Texas Rangers, kicking off a four-game series against the Boston Red Sox. For many families, baseball in Texas is a “Big as Dallas” tradition. Moms and dads are known to take a day off from work, maybe pull the kids from school and head to Arlington to take it all in. Believe it or not, some people disagree with the penchant for pennants, and when a co-parent takes their kid out of school, we can run into problems. 

Texas Rangers 2025 Full Season Schedule

Sports and extracurricular activities end up being a point of contention in co-parenting, not only when the kids want to go to games but also when the kids want to play sports in school and club organizations. The research and notoriety surrounding traumatic brain injury and other injury concerns affect many parents who are ultimately concerned with the safety of their children. 

A few legal issues can arise that concern parents, not only in co-parenting situations but also among school administrators and others connected to sports and activities. Sometimes, parents need to lawyer up and sue the school. Whether as a parent, your beef is with a co-parent, another parent, a coach, or an administrator, there are times to take the bench, and there are times to step up to bat. 

Southlake Divorce and Family Law Attorney Leslie Barrows Fields Sports-Related Issues

If your co-parent is pitching a fit or you are catching signs that they are about to call for a time out, Leslie Barrows and her team at the Barrows Firm can help you with the safety equipment and measures to protect yourself from foul balls and bad calls. For a consultation with Attorney Leslie Barrows at the Barrows Firm in Southlake, please contact the firm for an appointment. 

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Disputes Among Co-Parents Regarding Athletics and Other Activities 

Parents need not be divorced and co-parenting to argue over their kids playing sports or getting involved in extracurricular activities with which the other parent objects. The difference is when it’s a post-decree co-parenting disagreement, things can escalate to the point of legal action. The prevalence of research and news regarding student safety fuels the cause for concern with contact sports, which leads to conflict among decision makers. 

If co-parenting, it is common that both parents are joint custodial conservators for purposes of decision making on children’s activities. Even though one parent may be the primary parent with rights in determining the kids’ primary residence and with whom they spend the majority of their time, the other parent may still raise concerns and escalate to litigation on a modification or enforcement case when things heat up and civility melts away. 

Using Mediation for Resolving Scheuling and Safety Conflicts Outside of Court 

When co-parents have new problems with sports and extracurriculars, even theater, it doesn’t matter what the beef is, it can be resolved outside of court through mediation, saving everyone the time and resources needed for litigation. Even if one party has a solid argument about a material and substantial change in circumstances that would give rise to a meritorious modification claim, that’s a big deal and can end up causing more pain than the relief it could bring. 

Being the one on the pitcher’s mound calling the shots is a good place to start because when you are the one who has the winning fact pattern, you’re being the leader when you agree to resolve conflict through mediation. The other side is likely going to advise their client that it’s in their best interest to be reasonable. But if we can’t be reasonable, we get to work and are always ready to play ball. 

School Law and Issues in Texas, Civil, and Administrative Relief 

Another issue not so far out in left field is school law and issues with administrations and organizational leadership. What happens with your kid is injured, and you know in your heart that the school or group you trusted failed you, subjected your child to harm, and their negligence has a cost that must be paid? 

Remember Friday Night Lights? Remember when the quarterback who wasn’t properly trained to block a tackle ended up paralyzed? Yes, they sued the school and Coach Taylor. That, folks, is a very real situation, and it can happen to any kid on any field, in any independent school district, or private leagues and club sports. 

‍Blog Article Photo Attribution: Distractify.com article, “In 'Friday Night Lights,’ Jason Street’s Future Includes Some Serious Emotional Recovery.” By Alex West, Published Aug 4, 2024.

Additional Issues When Parents, Schools, and Administrators Clash

Title IX ensures equal opportunity for all students, boys and girls, in athletics. When students are unfairly denied access to participation due to gender discrimination or other forms of bias, it may be time to prepare for litigation. In addition to Title IX, there can be issues regarding sports eligibility, scholarships, and disciplinary issues affecting students’ ability to participate in sports. 

While the Barrows Firm isn’t necessarily a school law firm, Leslie Barrows is significantly connected and respected, with friendly but fierce colleagues who will suit up and go to bat for you and your family when it’s necessary to intervene in these types of situations. There are layers of administrative law and procedures specific to schools and administrative codes, so be prepared for a significant experience if that is the route you choose. And if you’re a betting person, you can be that the best play is letting your opponent know you are ready to go to the mat and wrestle for justice. 

Enjoy Spring, Summer, and Fall Sports. The Barrows Firm Always Wishes You and Your Children Well

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What Makes A Woman Historic? 

Louise Raggio, featured in this article’s cover image, made women’s history in Texas, fighting to pass a landmark law giving equal rights to Texas women, the law taking effect January 1, 1968. The Texas Monthly article linked below, is worth reading and is a great historical account. 

Leslie Barrows is the principal founder and owner of the Barrows Firm, celebrating all kinds of women at various points in their life history. Let’s focus on the word “history.” To make history, one needs to do historic things. Not every woman who does something notable is going to get the praise of a ticker tape parade and streamers, but some recognition would sure be nice. Many women spend much of their life feeling like they exist in a role, as mother, as wife, as sister, as daughter, and those roles can direct how women conduct themselves in life and strive to make things better along the way. 

Creating history and being memorable, doing those things that make things better, they can be on a grand scale or a very small local level. History is made when the first woman is elected to a local position. History is also made when a woman is the first in her family to graduate from college or graduate school. History is made when a woman is the first in her family to start a business or decide whether to have children and raise a family. 

Women don’t have to walk on the moon or hold any specific office to be historic, however, as we have seen in acts of defiance or women putting their needs first. Women leaving abusive husbands or wives may be historic in a family where the women stayed in bad situations, often much to their detriment. 

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Relevant Article Links: 

‍Psychology Today - For Well-Behaved Women Who May Never Make History

‍Texas Monthly - Until 1968, a Married Texas Woman Couldn’t Own Property or Start a Business Without Her Husband’s Permission. This Dallas Attorney Changed That

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Leslie Barrows Helps Women Make Tough Family and Parenting Decisions

Contrary to the belief of some, people do not throw in the towel on their marriage the moment things get tough. Many women who consult with and hire the Barrows Firm for their divorce and family law matters will explain how they have been patient and tried everything and anything they could think of before concluding that the marriage or situation has become impossible. 

Those women making the decision to file for divorce, and to fight for custody and to be named the primary parent making residential choices; they are history makers. In many families, these women are the first to take such a bold step as terminating their marriage, and many are making history by being the first to stand up for themselves and their children. 

The Barrows Firm is a Women-Supported Team 

From the first call to our office to meeting with your attorney or one of the paralegals supporting your family law matter, clients are working with women. The care and compassion people think about when they talk about a woman-owned business is an important element of the mission and values at the Barrows Firm. But even more importantly, we all know that women can handle tough life events and strong women get the job done. Leslie Barrows is known for being a straight shooter, telling people the truth about their situation and the best course of action to win for themselves and their family. That’s what a women-supported team is all about.  

Leslie Barrows Also Helps Men in Family Law 

Let’s not forget all the male clients who also work well with a women-supported law firm and staff, they appreciate strong women, regardless of whatever happened with their own marriage or situation. We are often reminded that gender roles and stereotypes are not determining factors in real life, and when it takes two to tango, there are all kinds of things that go on behind closed doors. Men are also victims of abuse and all the things that lead them to file for divorce and custody actions, many of the same factors women discuss. 

Please Say or Do Something Nice for a Strong Woman in Your Life 

Remember, it doesn’t have to be National Women’s History Month to do something nice for the strong women in your life. Treat them well and do something nice for them. We at the Barrows Firm appreciate you all and hope that you thought about and said thank you to an important woman in your life.

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It is a rare opportunity to sit with a former judge and ask them for perspectives on some of the most pressing issues facing Texas divorce and family law attorneys and their clients. This episode of the Barrows Firm Law Review features Attorney Leslie Barrows and her guest, Attorney Matt Riek, a former judge who is now back in private practice. 

Leading the discussion, Attorney Barrows reminds us all of the upcoming April 1st deadline in Texas, to notify the other parent of upcoming extended summer possession plans. Spring break and summer vacation will be here quicker than we realize, and these springtime issues are our focus at the Barrows Firm this March. 

Meet Attorney Matt Riek, Retired Judge, Back in Private Practice 

‍Attorney Leslie Barrows welcomes guest, Attorney Matt Riek who introduces himself and gives background and perspective on family law from being on the bench and serving as a judge in Tarrant County. 

The discussions highlight some of the exciting parts of being a judge, highlighting perspectives that fellow attorneys may appreciate and understand. 

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‍Perspectives on Challenges in Law Practice and Court 

Matt Riek talks about getting the most out of a 20-minute hearing, and how important it can be to identify the truly conflicted issues. He also notes the importance of preparation and organization. 

Artificial intelligence is also emerging more frequently as issues arise and we learn how to be ethical and safe practitioners. It will be interesting to watch how the local rulemakers address technology issues. 

Pro se litigants in family law are also using AI and filing pleadings they might not understand, and Matt reminds us that people representing themselves pro se, without attorneys, are held to the same standard in court as any attorney who practices before them daily, so not knowing the law or procedure is not an excuse. 

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Thoughts for Attorneys Interested in Becoming Judges 

Some young lawyers aspire to becoming judges at some point in their career, and others are presented with the opportunity. In any case, the experience of doing good for your community and helping others is a unique opportunity in life. 

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Popular Culture Focus: We Mention Police Involvement in Family Violence Cases 

When chatting about family violence cases and changes in the legislature, we mentioned the Gabby Petitio series on Netflix that many are watching. The young couple’s stop with law enforcement was recorded and we discussed it and highlighted the behind-the-scenes view of police analyzing their situation to determine what to do next. 

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About Matt Riek in Fort Worth, Texas 

Matt Riek is a Board Certified family law attorney and mediator at Mims Ballew Hollingsworth, PLLC. We thank him for being our guest on the Barrows Firm Law Review podcast with Leslie Barrows at the Barrows Firm in Southlake, Texas.

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Updating Our Family Matters Include Modifications in Custody and Support When Necessary 

It is too cold to do much outside for a while, so smart people spend February getting their house in order, and for some people that means getting a modification case moving and correcting problems in co-parenting. In Texas, once your original divorce and custody case is done, your final order is final and if the terms no longer work, the Court must enter a new order but that can only be done with the formal court process which requires a new case filing and the procedure that goes along with it. 

Knowing that a modification is serious business, we need to take a good look at the situation and determine if it is truly ripe for court action. There are all kinds of situations in families as we all grow in our pursuits. It is possible to mediate issues and get a workaround that everyone can agree to, or we can litigate. 

At the Barrows Firm in Southlake, Attorney Leslie Barrows frequently gets questions from people looking to get an order on file to memorialize a new situation that works, when the original order fails. Is it a new person in someone’s life? Is there a new job opportunity affecting co-parenting? Have substance abuse or other problems arisen? 

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The February Episode is About These Topics

Modifications for Final Custody and Parenting Orders 

What went wrong? Why can’t these parents get along? Sometimes despite everyone’s best efforts, for whatever reason, we just cannot get on the same page. Maybe there’s a new someone in the background, or parents putting on the pressure; whatever the reason is, a modification can be your solution. 

Material and substantial changes in circumstances must be established for the Court to make changes to final orders. The Texas Family Code lists reasons for modifications. 

Is a Modification Worth A Full Hearing and Court Process

Just as people who were once in love and starting a family, and got a divorce, those co-parents once getting along well, might hit a new impasse. There is a strategy question people must address when deciding whether it makes sense to go back to Court on a child custody modification case; whether the situation is something they would like or something they truly need. 

‍Consider a few scenarios, would you go back to court if: 

• A job requiring a significant move could be one example of a situation that requires going back to Court. 
• Another situation might include one of the parents introducing the children of significant others and a variety of family blending situations. 
• The primary parent develops substance abuse problems and the other parent goes for a modification. 
• Family violence or threats, and other negative and abusive behavior occur and cannot be tolerated without intervention. 

Modifications by Agreement, Saving Time and Money

A conflicted trial before a judge or jury is a significant undertaking. Even a 20-minute hearing, which is often all people have to make their case, can involve significant preparation time and work, witness and evidence preparation, and all the discovery work in the background. This is far from a routine procedure, so many people look for opportunities to accomplish their goals in an informal setting and use mediation and alternative dispute resolution as much as possible. 

Your agreement negotiated on your own can still be filed and received by the Court following the required process and procedure to formalize your new co-parenting plan in an updated order. 

Modifications for Child Support  

The Office of the Texas Attorney General offers information about child support modifications online and details on how to request a review when the child support recipient’s order was established more than three years ago and differs by more than 20% or $100 of the amount that would be awarded by the child support guidelines, or where a material and substantial change in circumstances has occurred since the date of the most recent order.  

We can help you with all your child support questions and needs at the Barrows Firm, where we want people to understand the parameters of the process. The question becomes whether it makes sense to seek a modification of child support now or in the future. 

The April 1st Summer Visitation Deadline 

Non-custodial parents are instructed to determine and notify the primary parent of their choice for summer visitation days, and how they’re going to allocate their extended summer possession with their kids.

If notice isn’t given, the standard default applies. Read about these issues in more detail in our article, Summer Possession: Making Plans and Giving Notice.

Getting Ready for Spring Break and Summer Camps

How to Chose the Best Summer Camp

Kids have all kinds of interests and preferences when it comes to the size of a group environment and location. When you have some time to dig in, there are so many options to choose from and ideas about what to pack in their trunk as the lists allow. Yes, as it sounds, this is a significant operation for anyone involved, and the planning is half the fun. Make it a fun experience for your kid to go experience other friends and fun activities. You might find some camps fill to their capacities quickly and now is the time to get things figured out. Even if you feel behind, you’re not the only one, and if you are spending time in February to look at spring break and summer camp ideas, you’ll be feeling pretty good about yourself. 

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The Barrows Firm Wants Everyone to Live Updated and Improved Lives with Peace of Mind and Proper Estate Planning 

Smart people aware of tax brackets and all the options available to preserve earned and inherited wealth, are frequently updating their short and long-term investment plans and managing family businesses and all the fun that comes with that. When getting started in life and raising families, many of us still think of ourselves as too young to worry about estate planning, or maybe we weren’t raised in families concerned with such. However, many of us have more assets and investments than we realize. We need to be smart. 

Money isn’t the only asset in our lives, human capital is worth so much more and is dear to the nature of our very existence, and estate planning is necessary to protect ourselves, and our whole families. From insurance plans and beneficiaries to medical directives and powers of attorney to decide for us in certain situations, estate planning touches nearly every part of our lives. 

Fisher Investments: HNW Estate Planning - A Guide for HNW Investors 

EP Wealth Advisors, LLC: High Net Worth Tax Strategies for High Net Worth

Things outside the family and businesses directly affect our estate plans and balance sheets of debts, liabilities, and assets. A new presidential administration, for example, may impact income sources coming into trusts and insurance policies, which also might be tapped for debt to get into exciting investment opportunities. All these things need a set of professional eyes on them to review things and make sure everything has been considered, and nothing in our portfolios causes internal sparks or contradictions. Remember, anything that could be ambiguous, can and will end up in court if it’s worth fighting over. 

Never underestimate the ability of deaths in the family to unearth all kinds of drama from decades ago, the things that were never addressed can arise and make estate administration challenging at best. Do yourself and your family a favor, be clear and concise with all your estate planning before anyone needs it. 

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Annually Updating Estate Planning Documents 

In our life events section below we identify just a few of the things that can happen in a year that might change the trajectory of our planning should we cease to exist or experience temporary mental incapacity. Remember that the life events list is not necessary for estate planning updates, and sometimes it’s just helpful to update the documents with the new addresses of children who are young and getting started. 

A new job, home, car, investment, or simply a new lawyer you meet, might be the proper catalyst for estate planning document review and updates. And when you know you’re going to see the estate planning lawyer once a year or every other year, as you see fit, that relationship develops, which is always helpful, especially when your kid is getting married and needs a premarital agreement, non-disclosure agreements, and so forth. 

‍In Southlake and all over DFW, Leslie Barrows has earned a strong reputation for being well-connected in all the elements of estate planning and family law that make her in demand with people in the know. Contact the Barrows Firm to schedule a consultation with Attorney Barrows. 

Life Events Require New Improvements to Estate Planning

‍Birth

A new baby, born or adopted, should be added as a beneficiary in any wills, trusts, policies, and ownership interests in like kind with the other children. Or, in another twist, and for whatever reasons, the child might be specifically excluded from taking under any documented assets or interests. In most situations, the addition of a new family member is easy enough and takes little effort. It might also be a first-born child which can open the door to additional estate planning tools, especially involving education and future interests in investments. 

‍Death

The death of a spouse, parent, child, or any other family member or significant person named in estate planning and trust documents must be updated. If you fail to update things and it comes to a dispute in Court, decisions are made on statutory direction and judicial discretion. Especially when your financial setup has elements of interest contingent upon other interests and circumstances, it’s important to have everything reviewed by your estate planning attorney, as well as the money managers and investments team. 

‍Disability or Illness

If someone is diagnosed with a temporary or potentially prolonged disability or illness, estate planning becomes important immediately. Imagine a child is injured and will need to be supported by an outside-funded special needs trust, you have estate planning work to do. If a family member normally an important decision maker develops mental conditions that could affect judgment, that’s the time things might need to be moved around so that a more cogent plan of estate planning action is well-grounded and protecting your family. 

‍Divorce

How many times do we have to joke about your ex-spouse having decision-making authority? And while there may be laws and provisions that prevent that nightmare situation, it begs the important question of what else has their name on it? Divorces can also involve situations where one of the parties has a new family, or a new baby on the way with another person. Remember to address estate planning issues and be vigilant about them now, so you won’t be sorry later. 

‍Marriage 

Nothing says I love you like a legally binding contract and estate planning documents with some fun nondisclosure agreements and premarital agreements with all kinds of twists and turns in the terms. If it’s legal, it can go in a prenup. Child support and custody, however, cannot be addressed by premarital agreements, and state law and procedure will apply. Weddings might also signal the time for parents to redo some of their estate planning, when for example, a child has started their own family and it is time for them to handle their financial affairs, insomuch as that makes sense. 

‍Relocation

Different cities, and different states, sometimes have very different laws that could surprise us when it comes time to update our estate planning documents. What if, for example, one parent takes a new job in New York or California, but the family stays in Texas, what if any changes might they need to make? Sounds like a bar exam question, doesn’t it? Instead of going to law school, call your trusted estate planning lawyer and let them know about major life events including relocation, that can impact your estate planning. 

‍Tax Liability 

Money and assets move differently in various situations and environments which requires estate planning updates and attention to detail on how everything intersects. That new job that has one of the parents outside the home in New York during the week, that job could put the family in a different position economically, with new tax liabilities. This might require some financial wizardry that needs inclusion in estate planning documents to memorialize the new plans. 

Beneficiary Designations 

As we age, and our life experiences and expectations adjust to whatever may be going on in our families and lives, our beneficiary designations might need adjustments. Like father says to son, if you date that girl, I’m taking you out of the will. They call their estate planning lawyer to disinherit the son and learn they better leave them something and name them in the will or have the law assume another outcome. You would be surprised how many people think they can just write a note on paper saying I disinherit you, and have the other person sign it. Know what it takes to legally update estate planning documents and beneficiary designations. Use an experienced estate planning lawyer and stay ahead of the game of life. 

Contact the Barrows Firm for Estate Planning Consultations and Representation 

Attorney Leslie Barrows practices estate planning as well as family law and she sees how hard people fight for their families and to protect what they built, and that extends to estate planning. Her valuable decades of time in high-net-worth family law make her a well-experienced, and well-connected estate planning attorney for you and your family. 

Strategically Holding Everything Together and Winning For Your Children

Did you ever notice that over time, we’ve all grown up a little? Did you notice people standing up for themselves and saying no? Have you ever wanted to say so many things but kept a stiff upper lip to remain in the position of power? 

Strong parents are actively empowering others to stop being victims and start being winners as they do what they need to take control of their lives and family situations. Sometimes that means exercising extreme caution and patience, and other times it means time for immediate and decisive action. 

Are some people criticized for not sticking to their plans and commitments, and are they perceived as throwing in the towel too quickly? Certainly, that happens. While yes, it is important to try couples counseling and therapy to fix problems and do what it takes to preserve the family, we can also admit when things are irretrievably broken, it’s time for action. People in past decades might have spun around not knowing which end was up, but in 2025, we know how to take the wheel and get us where we need to go. 

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Filing the Petition for Divorce and Child Custody

The first party in the divorce to file is the Petitioner and the other party will be the Respondent. The petitioner sets out their allegations and requests for divorce, custody, and whatever monetary relief is being sought for support. Property is also addressed and the petitioner may make claims to certain property as being separate property not subject to equitable distribution.

What is alleged in the petition may lead the respondent to file a counter-petition with their claims for relief and the court process allows all to be addressed with proper procedure. 

There are certain strategic reasons for being the first to file, and Attorney Leslie Barrows is happy to discuss those as they may apply to every individual situation. One example may be a family violence situation where an Emergency Order of Protection is sought and the petitioner filing for divorce seeks exclusive possession of the marital residence, and they often get it. 

Seeking Joint or Sole Managing Conservatorship 

There is a presumption in Texas and most states that joint custody / joint managing conservatorship is in the best interest of children who are benefited by strong relationships with both parents. To get sole managing conservatorship where the other parent has no parenting decision-making rights, that other parent must be awful to the point the kids can’t be around them in many cases and any visitation is supervised. Family violence and abandonment cases are sad and often involve these scenarios. 

Psychology Today:

•  8 Tips to Help Co-Parents with Drop-Offs and Pick-Ups
• Shared Physical Custody - What Children Discover and Suffer 

What is more often litigated is which parent, assuming joint managing conservatorship, is the parent who gets to determine the residence of the child. This parent in the driver’s seat on the residence is often referred to as the primary parent, the one with whom the child primarily resides and the other parent will have visitation on a reasonable parenting plan and schedule. 

It may sound like the petitioner, the first to file, is often the one who gets primary custody, and that may be but it all depends on the situation. Sometimes the first to file is the one who is the cause of many of the problems. Every family is unique and that’s why it is so important to get experienced legal advice based on the facts and circumstances, so understand the truth comes out when we keep our cool and let the process work. 

Never Allowing Domestic or Family Violence

You think you know someone until you have no idea of what they are capable. The ability of people to hold onto resentment for years is surprising sometimes. The threats and penalties some people hold over others are also shocking. 

How could anyone stay with someone who did something like that? Folks, it is never easy to understand what another person experiences, but hopefully, we can all agree that violence is never okay. Physical harm is never okay. Mental and emotional torture and passive-aggressive behavior, those things are not okay either.

Isolated negative events historically escalate. There may be a period of forgiveness and working on positive steps until one thing triggers rage. While we would like to think a person who hit someone once won’t ever do it again, we’ve also seen significant evidence to the contrary. To get out of a harmful situation, we can help people make a plan well ahead of filing anything so they don’t tip their hand. Your safety and that of your children is paramount. 

Tips for Holding it Together and Staying in the Driver’s Seat of Your Emotions and Behavior

The other parent knows how to push your buttons. They know your weakest and most vulnerable pressure points. They could do things in a way that makes you have surprisingly aggressive thoughts. Know when they are trying to upset you and throw you off your game. 

As we talked about in our recent podcast, What Kids Learn from Divorce, about keeping it together mentally and showing kids how to be leaders by setting a good example, a parent going through a divorce has to brace for all kinds of expected and unexpected attention, both positive and negative. 

Mentally preparing for custody challenges, the parent prepares for how they think the other one is going to react and respond. They’re so focused on that other parent, that they fail to prepare for all the other people in life’s comment section, who have all the opinions to share. 

How strong does someone need to be? The good news is these matters don’t last forever, and with a good outlook on life, knowing sometimes it is bad before it’s better, there are happy days ahead, for those who stay strong and keep their hands at 10 and 2 and maintain their lane. 

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Only You Know Your Children Well Enough to Determine How to Strategize Child Custody Cases in Texas 

Anyone who is perfect at parenting should polish their award. The rest of us need to practice our parenting skills as we wear hats of educator, leader, provider, and protector. If we find ourselves in a family law matter and must decide on divorce and custody strategy, we have already likely self-analyzed everything to the point we nearly freeze up. 

After we hit that emotional wall it is time to admit we have the power and control over ourselves and we are going to do the best we can to be a good parent and shepherd our children through the process of divorce and custody, ideally unscathed. We need to know when to litigate and when to settle. Sometimes preparing for a knock down drag out is the best way to position ourselves to settle. Stay in the drivers seat, hold the cards. 

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Texas Courts Make Determinations Based on the Best Interests of Children

If you and your opposing party are unable to agree on custody and parenting time and decision making, the Court will make determinations based on the options available in the Texas Family Code and local rules. One parent will be named the primary conservator with right to determine the child’s residence and the other parent will get possession time based on a standard schedule. 

When custody is high conflict and both parents find themselves a primary parent, the Court will have a hearing and weigh evidence presented on the following “Best Interests of the Child” factors - Texas Family Code Chapter/Section 263.307: 

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1. The child’s age and physical and mental vulnerabilities; 
2. The frequency and nature of out-of-home placements; 
3. The magnitude, frequency, and circumstances of the harm to the child; 
4. Whether the child has been the victim of repeated harm after the initial report and intervention by the department; 
5. Whether the child is fearful of living in or returning to the child’s home; 
6. The results of psychiatric, psychological, or developmental evaluations of the child, the child’s parents, other family members, or others who have access to the child’s home; 
7. Whether there is a history of abusive or assaultive conduct by the child’s family or others who have access to the child’s home; 
8. Whether there is a history of substance abuse by the child’s family or others who have access to the child’s home; 
9. Whether the perpetrator of the harm to the child is identified; 
10. The willingness and ability of the child’s family to seek out, accept, and complete counseling services and to cooperate with and facilitate an appropriate agency’s close supervision; 
11. The willingness and ability of the child’s family to effect positive environment and personal changes within a reasonable period of time;
12. Whether the child’s family demonstrates adequate parenting skills, including providing the child and other children under the family’s care with: some text
    1. Minimally adequate health and nutritional care;
    2. Care, nurturance, and appropriate discipline 
    3. Guidance and supervision consistent with the child’s safety; 
    4. A safe physical home environment; 
    5. Protection from repeated exposure to violence even though the violence may not be directed at the child; and 
    6. An understanding of the child’s needs and capabilities; and 
13. Whether an adequate social support system consisting of an extended family and friends is available to the child. 

January is International Child-Centered Divorce Awareness Month 

When you read the list of all the Best Interest of the Child factors, you can imagine how many issues family lawyers might raise, when their client tells them those are exactly the concerns they are having about the other parent being the primary parent. In some cases where domestic and family violence charges are made, we get prepared for high conflict hearings and evidence to help the Court make the best decision, ideally in our favor. 

Here’s the problem however, too often the battle is not actually rooted in one parent being better, it’s about the years of built up anger and resentment, just to begin the list. So when the custody battles appear as best interest of the child protectors, are they really, we must ask ourselves. 

This January, a perennially busy time in divorce and custody courts, we see people ready to go to battle and build strategies to get custody and all the decision making. Here’s where we need to pump the breaks sometimes. At the Barrows Firm in Southlake, Leslie Barrows, has earned a local reputation for telling people the truth, and how things work in Court, and what to expect. She’s seen a thing or two, and a family or two, who claimed every move was in the best interests of the children, when it was really symptomatic of other conflict. Don’t drag kids through that. 

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Your Children May be Stronger Than You Realize

If you believe your children are going to suffer irreparable damage if you may be surprised how much they can handle. It is natural and right for a parent to maintain their ultimate sense of control and dominion over their child, and part of that process may be allowing your child to be tougher than you want to admit. Because if they’re tough, they don’t need our protection, if they don’t need our protection, are we just an ATM machine? 

Let’s stop and recognize how stressful any divorce or custody matter is and our decision making might feel a little off, because no, this is not a normal routine situation when our families are involved. This however, does not mean we can let down the drama shield, and hopefully spare our children from being worried about whether we are going to be able to keep it together. It could be 10 or 20 years from now they tell you they think you handled everything well, and rest assured in the meantime that they know.

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Psychology Today Article: Stop Working So Hard to Calm Your Kids 

Find Strength in Restraint, Practicing Controlled Parenting

Be real, be authentic, and be strong. Moreover, be in control. Even if the other parent isn’t the one getting you fired up, their new lover just might. Or what happens when their new person has kids and they’re going to be mixed in with yours? We are abundant in opportunities to practice controlled parenting. 

However we cope, we need to know when to hold ‘em, and know when to fold ‘em when it comes to family litigation. We will help you go to battle and stand on ten toes, but you also have to know when to spot your winning trajectory, get what you want, and get out. Settle the other stuff in compromise when you know what is most important to you, and it’s usually in that best interests of the child list. 

Pick Your Battles and Pursue the Ones You Can Win  

Are you worried if you don’t fight for something it looks like you rolled over and caved? Deep down that’s what worries people. But knowing what you are really able to do about it is another story. The money spent on fighting a hearing you may not be likely to win, that money could be spent taking your kids on vacation. That money could be spent on anything better than fighting in court. 

So be mindful and be deliberate about what you are going to go for and don’t look back. And when your lawyer says now is the time to take your winning chips and go cash them in, listen to them. 

Calculated Divorce and Child Custody with Attorney Leslie Barrows at The Barrows Firm in Southlake, Texas 

Since 2006 the Barrows Firm has been shepherding families through the divorce and child custody process in Tarrant County and all over DFW. Leslie Barrows is well-connected in the high-net worth family law community she is a reliable source of all kinds of professional referrals in addition to advice and representation in the matters that affect your families. Contact Leslie at the Barrow Firm today! (817) 481-1583